Professor Richard Wiseman of the University of Hertfordshire in the UK, try researching things that distinguish those lucky people with the bad luck. Wiseman recruited a group of people who feel their lives are always profitable, and a bunch of others whose lives are always unlucky. It sounded like a mess, how could luck be investigated. But apparently it lucky people act differently to those pesky.
For example, in one study of The Luck Project, Wiseman gave the task to calculate how many photos in the newspaper that was distributed to 2 groups. The guys from the bad luck takes an average of 2 minutes to complete this task. While they were the lucky group only needs a few seconds! Well how come? Yes, because earlier on the 2nd page, Wiseman has put no small inscription reads "Stop counting now! there are 43 images in this newspaper. " Kelompol pesky missed this article when engrossed in counting the image. Even more fun again, in the middle of the paper, Wiseman put another message that read: "Stop counting now and tell the researcher you find it, and win $ 250!". Again, the unfortunate passing the message! It was really unlucky.
In short, from the research that claims to be "scientific" is, Wiseman found 4 factors that distinguish those lucky than unlucky:
1. Attitudes towards opportunities
Lucky guy was indeed more open to opportunities. They are more sensitive to the opportunities, good at creating opportunity and act when opportunity comes. How is this possible? Apparently the people who are lucky to have a more relaxed attitude and open to new experiences. They are more open to interaction with the new people and create new social networks. People who are unlucky more tense, so closed to new possibilities.
For example, when Barnett Helzberg owner of a jewelry store in New York was about to sell the pearl shop, accidentally while walking in front of the Plaza Hotel, she heard a woman call the man next door "Mr. Buffet! "Just a glimpse of events that may be passed most people who are less fortunate. But Helzber thinks otherwise, he thought if the guy next to him turned out to be Warren Buffet, one of the biggest investors in the United States, then he likely offer pearl chain stores. Helzberg then promptly greeted him at the door, and it turns out he really is Warren Buffet. Introductions ensued and Helzberg previously did not know Warren Buffett, has offered his business directly to Buffett, face to face. A year later, Buffett agreed to buy network-owned jeweler Helzberg. Really lucky.
2. Using intuition to make decisions
The lucky guy was more intuition than logic. Important decisions made by the fortunate turns largely on the basis whisper "conscience" (intuition) rather than the number-crunching results are sophisticated. The numbers would be very helpful, but the final decision is generally of "good feeling". That may be difficult for people who are unlucky, last whisper of conscience would be difficult to hear when our brain dizzy with endless reasoning. So lucky people generally have a method to sharpen their intuition, for example through regular meditation. In a calm mental state, and a clear mind, intuition will be more accessible. And the more frequently used, our intuition will also be sharper.
Many asked, "listen to intuition" was what? Is suddenly heard a voice telling us to do something? Indeed intuition that often appear in various forms, for example:
Cues from the body. You'll often encounter. "I was suddenly really excited yes, like dapet fortune times", kind of thing. Our bodies actually often give certain cues that you should maknakan. Suppose you are suddenly feverish if you want dapet big deal, so look out for it when suddenly feverish again J
Cues from feeling. Suddenly you feel something else when looking at or doing something. It's that I have ever experienced. For example, when I was in college, I like to feel suddenly excited every time through the office of a particular company. A few years later, I was working in the office.
3. Always expect good will come
The man who turned out to be lucky always ge-er for life. Always prejudiced either that good will come to him. With such a mental attitude, they are more resistant to the exam upon them, and will be more positive in interacting with others. Let's say you do a simple test yourself, ask successful people you know, how the future business prospects. Surely they will tell optimism and hope.
4. Changing a bad thing to be good
Lucky people are very good at facing a bad situation and turn it into good. For them, every situation there is always a bright side. In one test, Prof. Wiseman asked participants to imagine was going to the bank, and the bank suddenly invaded by armed robbers. And participants were asked to express their reactions. The reaction of the unlucky people are generally: "Well shit Ko was in the middle of a robbery so". While the reaction of the lucky ones, for example, is: "Thank God I was there, I could write about my experience to the media and get money". Whatever the situation, the lucky lucky continue anyway. They were quickly able to adapt to a bad situation and turn it into a fortune.
Luck School
For those who are less fortunate, Prof Wiseman even opened Luck School. Wiseman exercises given to people like that is to create a "Luck Diary ', diary luck. Each day, participants should note the positive things that happened or fortune. They were forbidden to write their misadventures. Initially it may be difficult, but so they can write a good luck, tomorrow, the next day would be the easier and the more luck they wrote. And when they saw a few days back Lucky Diary them, they are more aware of how fortunate they are. And according to the principle of "law of attraction", the more they think about how lucky they are, the more the lucky events that come to life. So, Have you lucky today?
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