Do not Just Women Charged Holy

    Virginity or chastity is regarded as vital to our community. However, women should not only maintain the sanctity demanded, men should too. This was stated by senior psychologist of Personal Growth, Ruth Abraham.
"It just happened that women have a hymen that so he becomes the more highlighted. Fact, women are also entitled to claim the sanctity of his partner because virginity is purity that we offer for a life partner because we love and respect him," said Ruth, Tuesday (4 / 12/2012), to Kompas.com.
Access to information is not limited at this time is to make children and teens more easily obtain information about the pornography. Without proper assistance, they are more vulnerable to promiscuity and risky sexual intercourse at an early age.
Therefore, according to Ruth, it is important to equip children with sex education as early as possible. "Sex education is not just about how to have sex, but it is more existential, about gender and paired attributes," says psychologist who actively provide sexual education in schools.
Sex education can start from the most basic things, such as why the boy was not wearing a skirt, or the difference in the sex organs of men and women and how to keep it.
Sex education, according to Ruth, it's too late if taught when the child became a teenager and started to like the opposite sex. With a good sex education, children can also be taught to delay sexual relations until he finds a mate and get married.
"Children have a parent as a role model, as a role model. From there, he can learn how to treat the opposite sex with respect, how his mom and dad love each other so as to know what the limits are not to be violated," he said.
He also confirmed that sex education should be obtained from the child's parents. "This is not just the responsibility of the mother, but also a father," he said.